English Church Weddings in 1768

In 1768, the church was endeavouring to corner the market on the marriage ceremony by levying fees for it which many could not, or would not pay. Consequently, only the gentry could afford a church service. Thus, the ancient custom of Handfasting became re-established throughout most of England, especially in rural areas.

 Handfasting was a simple marriage ceremony given to us at the time of our occupation by the Norsemen. A couple would make a pact, or pledge, before a recognised person of authority within the community, once called the Sithcundman - the village elder, usually the chief man of the district. This was known as the Betrothal.

The couple would remain together for a year and a day - a trial marriage, in other words. If, after that time, they wished to remain together for life, then so be it. However, if they were not happy, they separated and were free to make another choice, the pledge was considered to have been honoured. No ring, no vows, none of the  accoutrements or formalities of today. The pledge was sufficient.

Handfasting remained in practise from the 17th century to the 19th century, until Queen Victoria came to the throne. The couple would have celebrated by feasting and drinking hydomel, originally a  Teutonic drink brewed from fermented honey, which was subsequently altered into what we today know as mead.  

This gives rise to the Honeymoon, which would have been limited to a day or so, as it is likely that both would have been in the service of a local land/factory/mine owner.